Yeah, well put. I admit to sometimes being "that guy" but I tend to be a hell of a lot more open. I am also demanding of some service and quality, though, and you've seen my transit struggles with both. For me, the cleanliness and/or time constraints are all the would be left in a perfect world. Otherwise, you are right - it's a mid game. Americans have really become fucked up on the topic, and I think there are some interesting mental layers to it - including but not limited to - social psychology concepts.

Not sure how many answers I have to the questions posed, but I share them.