I wasn't going to chime in on this one, but the abortion factor is very relevant. As a hypnotherapist,I found it popping up as a recurrent theme in many problems. Usually the buried guilt manifesting itself as other issues,usually something serious.
Often the father's wishes are dismissed also. I was in a serious relationship years ago that ended when I found out that she had an abortion without discussing it with me. She felt my opposition to the procedure precluded any discussion.