There are people in my life who label themselves as asexual. I have absolutely confirmed that they are willing to endure negative point activities (chores, generally) for my benefit, particularly in situations where the point cost to them is less than the point cost to me. But, despite knowing that I place a high positive value on sex, they still do not want to have sex with me. There's nothing *wrong* with them not wanting to, the only problem is in their claim that sex is worth 0 points to them, when it is obviously worth a significant negative number of points to them.
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There are people in my life who label themselves as asexual. I have absolutely confirmed that they are willing to endure negative point activities (chores, generally) for my benefit, particularly in situations where the point cost to them is less than the point cost to me. But, despite knowing that I place a high positive value on sex, they still do not want to have sex with me. There's nothing *wrong* with them not wanting to, the only problem is in their claim that sex is worth 0 points to them, when it is obviously worth a significant negative number of points to them.