As much as it hurts and is sad to have a door close, metaphorically, on a relationship or friendship... it's vitally important to remember that there are literally billions of people on this planet. As wonderful and profound as someone is, as sexy and intellectually intriguing... if that's a closed door, I generally take it as no big deal. It's far more with it to be up front and honest. While it might filter out 99.99% of the people I (or you) come in contact with, it will filter in people who are far more compatible.
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Date: 2011-08-04 11:33 pm (UTC)