I've been on both sides of this. I was raped when I was 21 and my decision then due to religious views, my views on abortion and a number of other things was to give her up for adoption. She's 24 now and healthy. The second time I was pregnant and this was years later, I felt the decision should be between me and the father as it was both of ours responsibility and I did'nt feel that I had the right to deprive him of his child if he did want it. Neither of us was capable of supporting the child at the time and it was a mutual decision to have the abortion and he actually offered to pay for it.
Would I have another abortion? NO Would I choose to let someone adopt again? No I would choose to keep my child at this point due to being more stable.
Is your logic above correct? It is for you.
Everyone has their reasons for what they do and how they feel on this issue.
My beliefs on this is that it is a choice that an individual and their partner at the time have to make for themselves based on many factors.
I personally don't like abortion, for me it's not a choice I would make again. That being said it is a choice that anyone should be able to make for themselves.
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Date: 2010-08-31 02:33 pm (UTC)I was raped when I was 21 and my decision then due to religious views, my views on abortion and a number of other things was to give her up for adoption.
She's 24 now and healthy.
The second time I was pregnant and this was years later, I felt the decision should be between me and the father as it was both of ours responsibility and I did'nt feel that I had the right to deprive him of his child if he did want it.
Neither of us was capable of supporting the child at the time and it was a mutual decision to have the abortion and he actually offered to pay for it.
Would I have another abortion?
NO
Would I choose to let someone adopt again?
No I would choose to keep my child at this point due to being more stable.
Is your logic above correct?
It is for you.
Everyone has their reasons for what they do and how they feel on this issue.
My beliefs on this is that it is a choice that an individual and their partner at the time have to make for themselves based on many factors.
I personally don't like abortion, for me it's not a choice I would make again.
That being said it is a choice that anyone should be able to make for themselves.