I know almost nothing about your situation but here's one thought: when people are exhausted it is harder for them to advocate for themselves. It may be that by doing nothing you create needed space for other people to go after what you are framing as the shared goals.
Again, I speak from a position of almost no information.
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Date: 2019-08-12 08:10 pm (UTC)Again, I speak from a position of almost no information.